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Hi all!  So, I wanted to give a short update on a few things tonight.  I’m really excited about a few things that have happened over the last week and, in the spirit of momentum and pushing forward, I wanted to share where I’m at.

I’ve constructed a few new projects related to my business that I’ve begun working on.  I know this is something that I’m going to have to narrow down and continue to iron out details, but they are things that I’ve wanted to work on for a while.  After heeding some of my own advice, I’m working on aligning and narrowing down the key things that I want to work on over the next few months.  How I did this is actually something else that I will be talking about in an upcoming post because this is some advice I feel can apply to anyone in nearly every situation—at least as a start.

The next thing is that I’ve narrowed down the scope of several of these large projects to help focus on a few key areas in my life: work, personal/health/spiritual, new business, home projects.  Having 4 areas of focus rather than a million projects has lessened the overwhelm and has given me room to prioritize.

The last thing that I wanted to make note of is that I have joined B-School with Marie Forleo!  I make mention of this project because it is a huge action step toward many of my goals.  It’s a large investment, but it’s one of those things where, when you think about it, you really can’t afford to not invest.  The best way to back yourself is to do it—take the leap.

This is work that can help lay the foundation for a variety of goals, personal and professional, and it’s something that I can work on now.  And really, when it comes to action, why not start now?  There was always the thought of, “I can do it next year when things are a little better.”  For the first time, I really thought about it and realized that I can either have the ground work ready and laid out in the next year (and possibly be even further) or I can plug along and continue to wait.  Why put off until tomorrow what can be done today?

So these are some projects that I will continue to update you on over the course of the next few months.  Change doesn’t happen without effort and I am going to put my money where my mouth is.  And, again, heeding my own advice, there isn’t a better time to start.  So here we go!

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Now that your direction is clarified, it’s time to start taking action toward the specific goal you have.  We do this by looking at the end result and then asking what it would take to get there.  What do you actually need to do in order to see that result?  This part isn’t about where you’re at—so it doesn’t matter where you start from.  It doesn’t matter what’s in your bank account or where you live, what your current job is, what you wear—none of that matters here.  This is simply taking account of what you need to do to get where you’re going.  What does it look like?  What does it feel like?

If you’re not sure of what to do to achieve your goal, the first part of that is researching what the steps are.  Look into what it takes to own your shop.  What permits and licenses are needed?  Can you do your work on a laptop or do you need a brick and mortar shop?  What is your mission?  What team do you need to build to help you put the pieces together?

Once you have the answer to a question, then break it down to the first step to achieve it.  Before you know it, you will have created the foundation.  Take each step one at a time and repeat: break it down piece by piece until you can check it off.  Before you know it, you are building the infrastructure of your dream.  Then the walls, then the roof, and before you know it, it’s all together.

I know many people will think this is an oversimplification of something that can be incredibly complex and to them I say THAT’S HOW YOU CREATE MOMENTUM!!  One step at a time.  I’m not going to pretend that any of this is easy because it takes effort and concentration and breaking years and years of habits in some cases.  It takes facing fear directly and saying I’m doing it anyway.  That in itself is a huge hurdle, so if you get to the point where you’ve even begun, congratulations!  The truth is that if we don’t break the complex into manageable parts, we won’t start and if we do, most of us won’t finish.  We think we have to eat the whole pie in one bite and it’s easy to get discouraged when we can’t do it.

So the other step entwined in all of this is probably the hardest: take the leap and go after that dream with unwavering confidence that you can do it.  That belief will put you miles ahead of the game.  Don’t listen to the nay-sayers or to the people critical that you didn’t do it the way they would have.  This is your dream, not theirs.  You will probably have to remind yourself an endless amount of times that achieving your dream is doable.  But those moments of doubt have no bearing over the end result so keep going and keep telling yourself how close you are.  Psych yourself up and get excited because the work will change your life.  It’s worth it, and remember, you’re only one decision away from a totally different life (Mark Batterson).

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Tonight’s step is a short one but it’s important.  This is where you start applying what you’ve learned from the first two steps and start seeing something coalesce into reality.

It’s simple: Get clear on where you’re going.  You’ve started working with your patterns and getting comfortable with trust.  You’ve stopped focusing as much at what other people think and you’re looking at what you need based on the things that feel right.  Once you’ve gotten to the point where you know what feels good, you can start asking more questions to really develop clarity about where you’re going.  Once you’ve established some trust in yourself and your abilities, then you can get more comfortable with defining where you’re going.  So, it’s about seeing where you want to go and then working out how to get there.

Start with questions like do any of these things go together?  Are there similar themes with what you enjoy.  Are there similar themes with what works?  Is there an overarching theme that can drive you in a direction?  If there isn’t one theme, are there a couple of key areas that may work well together?  This is about getting creative and finding the things you want to develop in greater detail.

There is another way to look at it: make friends with your curiosity and try to piece it together.  Yes, that may be an oversimplification for many people depending on their situation, however, the basic point remains the same: find what you like and find the thread.  This is about developing that plan even if you didn’t know what it was when you started out.  This is the chance to turn it into something you recognize and are passionate about.  Rumblings turn to revolutions when you listen to what your heart is saying.

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Briefly, step one is being with what is and taking stock of your surroundings and then owning your part in that via a connection with the universe.  If you missed the first step, go back and read my “Get in Line With Yourself.”  The essence of this step is to take responsibility for your actions and choices and recognize that your choices are what determined your current position in life.  If you look around you and see things that aren’t where you want to be, chances are your thoughts are along the same path.  Even with a bad hand, the choice about how to deal with it is now yours.

Step two is where we start to dig in and begin the work.  It isn’t enough to admit your role in something if you aren’t going to do something about it.  In fact, the whole reason you’re looking at where you’re at with such detail is because you want something else.  So step two is about the low hanging fruit—clear away what doesn’t serve where you’re going.  I will absolutely recommend taking the easy shots at the hard work—it’s easier to keep yourself moving forward at this stage of the game.  With big transition we need to remind ourselves that we can do it so take each win no matter how small and celebrate it.

To clarify, step two requires you to start small in order to acclimate yourself to growth and change.  If you’re feeling cluttered in your mind space, start cleaning your physical space.  If you don’t feel comfortable hanging out with a certain person anymore or doing a certain activity, then start saying no.  If you feel really happy, then start telling people or keep a gratitude journal.  If you want to start seeing more positivity around you, discuss the positive things that have happened.  Each of these things in their own right are small but they are often mountains to many of us.  Start the climb.

Believe me, you will feel better accomplishing one small task, trying one small feat once than you will sitting there wishing you could do something different.  This is about surprising yourself with that first step.  See yourself succeed and then take the next step.  At this point you may not have a clear goal—that’s ok.  Just keep going with what feels right. This is about building trust in your abilities.  It’s about building trust in receiving messages and signs.  It’s about reconnecting with your intuition and learning to understand it.  It’s also learning to accept ourselves and accepting that we are enough.  So in this whole process, if your fist step is knowing you’re doing too much, then let your second step be saying no when it feels overwhelming—and being ok with it.

That’s all it is—just start small.  Starting with any step is better than not doing anything.  Trust that when something feels off in your life, that is your sign to go in a new direction.  I start small a million times a day and I constantly remind myself that I am still accomplishing something even if I don’t accomplish it all.  When it doesn’t work out or if it doesn’t feel aligned, I ask again and I start again.  You got this. What are you going to start today?

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Following up on our discussion about what the universe gives us being a response to our vibration, I wanted to discuss ways to recognize you’re on the right vibration.

I think what’s most important here is understanding that you are already speaking to the universe and the results are all around you.  It’s important to understand how important thoughts really are.  Every thought emits a frequency that connects to you.  For example “I am” or “I believe” are perceived on the level of reality—there is no way to determine what is or isn’t real based on frequency-it just is.  For those who struggle with this concept, it isn’t necessary to believe that you are having a literal conversation with the universe or anything else so out there. It is necessary to understand that your internal world is its own universe.  You live in your head and those thoughts and feelings reflect in the outer world.  They color how you see things and how you react to them which creates your reality.  So make sure you’re conscious of what you’re thinking–you get to decide how you feel and how you react.

If you’re curious about the quality and content of your thoughts, look at your immediate environment as this is the most accurate representation of your inner thoughts.  Taking stock of where you’re at helps you understand the connection between your thoughts and the results you get.  If you see stacks of paper everywhere or other clutter chances are there is a part of you that feels disorganized and unclear with your thoughts as well.  If your house is filled with tons of things that get in your way or you don’t really have room for, chances are you feel restricted and frustrated in your thoughts.

If the goal is to align with our purpose we have to start small and get really honest about where we are and where we are going.  Then we work one step at a time to close the gap.  But take that first step. It will help you visualize and verbalize what you are feeling—and have often internalized.  Clearing your physical space opens up mental space as well.  Removing the clutter can detoxify our homes as well as our minds because we are cleaning up where we live.  Clean up your space, you clean up your mind.  As you clear your mind, the big picture will become more clear and will help guide you where you need to go.  If you don’t know where to start pick up your room.