Today’s card was “When I’m grateful for what I have, I can feel good along the way to what I desire” Gabby Bernstein, Super Attractor Deck. Another perfectly timed card as I spent a lot of today thinking about what I am grateful for. I had been feeling some frustration with how things are shaping up (in general) and it made me pause. I didn’t like the feeling of being trapped in a negative loop so I immediately started thinking of what I was grateful for.
I am grateful for the opportunity to continue to learn in my role. Even though I’m not taking the project exactly where I want it to at this moment, I am learning how to deal with setbacks beyond my control. I am also learning when it is appropriate to push my case and when to step back. It’s a lesson in using experience to judge what is best for the overall outcome rather than merely pressing my point.
I am grateful for opportunities to practice redirection and how to gracefully go with the ever-changing course of things. For so long the most important thing was making my opinion known and forcing people to see that my ideas for progress were the right ones. It’s nice to take a step back and see the alternatives rather than being set in a rigid path.
I am grateful for help teaching my kid and for help making sure that he is always loved. His caregivers definitely take the time to show him new experiences and they ALWAYS take the time to give him a little extra love during the time I’m away from him. He is learning to be more independent under their guidance.
I’m grateful for the chance to listen to what my body and mind need. I’m fortunate enough to have the time to pause when things get overwhelming and to take stock of where I’m at and take care of my needs. If I need a minute to regroup, I am able to do that. It’s nice to recenter and look at an issue with fresh eyes.
I’m grateful for friendship and surprise visits! It lets me know that people think of us and that it doesn’t take much to let people know you care—or to feel cared for. It’s nice to feel connection when you’re a little scattered and to have someone to bounce ideas off of. Just someone to pass the time and someone you find you have more little things in common with.
I’m grateful to be able to share these little reminders of things to be grateful for. It’s so easy to get swept up in our problems that we lose sight of how many things are going well. It’s a powerful step to learn how to look at the good in everything and to remember to look for the good in the middle of a storm.
I love the life I have and the fact that this has given me the chance to start building the life I want. Sometimes it isn’t about the end result—it’s about being happy for each achievement along the way and understanding that each small victory is a step toward the goal. We wouldn’t throw away a raw diamond because it hasn’t been polished. We shouldn’t throw away what we have in front of us simply because it isn’t doesn’t look like what we are hoping for.
It’s ok to feel joy for the little things. Brene Brown speaks of forboding joy and how we can be distracted with worry for losing something we love or that things will go wrong that we miss out on the good that is happening right now. Something good happening doesn’t mean that something bad has to happen as some kind of cosmic balance. Joy doesn’t require pain to be felt, and the more we allow ourselves to feel that, the more we can experience what brings us joy without holding back. Feeling good only brings what we desire even faster. So relish it and welcome the joy with open arms and know that what you want is coming your way.