“Your nonsense makes sense.  You’re speaking my language when life gets hectic, you’re all that I need  on late nights, in hard times I love that your weirdness matches mine,” The 502’s.  Our frequencies are unique and, as is the nature of frequency, we don’t always resonate with other frequencies.  Our job isn’t to alter our tone to be understood, our job is to let our vibration sound until we find our harmony, the complementary pieces that allow for the complete expression of self.  There is no need for explanation of what we do and what our purpose is because those who resonate with us know.  Because we know the same of them.  Things click and become easy when we find that group.  This isn’t only in the romantic sense, either.  This is entirely in the shared experience, found community, affirmed identity type of way.  There’s no need for words.  Being understood is an amazing feeling as is having the connection that comes when we view something the same way.  It’s a feeling of support, and when we come together with those who harmonize with us, we expand that frequency.     

More than just external validation and camaraderie, I seek to have this type of relationship with myself.  The kind of relationship where I’m fully at ease with my nonsense.  Where what may seem weird to others, even those I love, is perfectly normal and acceptable to me.  One thing I’m learning is we wear such a copious amount of masks in our lives and none of them are really worth the burden that comes with them.  I’ve learned that I’m exhausted trying to figure out who I need to be depending on where we go, on how I want to be perceived in that moment.  I WANT to let my hair down and simply exist and have fun and not wonder what people think.  When we feel that comfort in our own skin, that’s exactly what happens.  The charade fades.  The truth comes out and we no longer waste energy playing any game, any type of manipulation to make people understand.  We are simply understood.  When we understand ourselves, there is no misinterpreting that vibration we put out and those who best match with us will find us.  So love our nonsense and live in it!