“The audacity of these weirdos to think you’ll sit around mourning them.  I’m focused on vibrating higher so I never experience this kind of foolery again,” Oasis of Serenity.  A short reminder that the things not meant for us apply to people too.  The storms we talked about yesterday will take out those who aren’t meant for us as well.  Those who hold conditions on our friendship, on our time.  Those who fail to support us when we need them, those who choose to misunderstand, those who never listened in the first place.  Why should we mourn those who merely wanted us to fit into their game in the first place?  Those who thought we were merely there for their entertainment or to achieve their goals?  Sometimes people come into our lives to teach us how to be better and some come in to teach us we deserve better.  It can be a tricky, slippery slope sometimes, thinking we know someone’s thoughts and feelings-we need to know our own.  It’s only then we learn to appreciate who we are and the magic we create.  We only have control over ourselves and we have every reason to say we will not tolerate certain things again, that we aspire for more, that we feel more than those around us would allow.  And then we realize they weren’t the ones to allow anything, anyway.  We allow and we decide and we live our lives.  Choose to let go because in letting go, we will achieve the highest frequency we can imagine. 

I was raised to be polite—and there is always room for politeness, there is validity in being kind.  There is no place for allowing someone to dictate your life or place conditions on friendship.  That isn’t friendship—the relationship that says we are fine as long as you do what I say and make me feel how I need to feel and if we do what I want to do.  The loss of a relationship like that isn’t something to mourn.  There are people who cause the storms in our lives because they don’t know how to weather their own or they would rather be the savior in someone else’s storm.  But causing destruction to be the savior isn’t truly saving anyone.  And we aren’t meant to save each other from anything.  We help, we support, we uplift, we care—but we aren’t here to dictate how people live, or to create drama to validate our worth, or exist on this codependent plane where we fear life without someone.  It isn’t our job to fuel a false sense of power in someone by allowing them to call the shots in our lives.  As we close out these first few days of 2025, remember the power we share, the power that is unique to us, and the power we create.  If we find someone feels they are the source in our lives, then we need to remind them that we are our own source and our worth is determined by no one.  We know who we are, we move forward, we move up, we find peace and we live in patience and gratitude and we know who we are.  Know our worth.