“The most magnetic thing in the universe is you liking you,” JB Copeland.  When we like ourselves we are able to support who we are and we are able to draw our power because we know our skills and our abilities and when we like that about ourselves, we continue to draw power and attract those who can help bring that to life. The universe is attracted to love and positive energy so when we like ourselves, we are attracting all of the positive around us as well.  If we are going to give up what we knew, if we are going to realize that the change is worth the fear of stepping into the unknown and release the weight of carrying what we told ourselves we had to carry, then we need to know we are capable, that we love ourselves, that we appreciate our abilities. 

People struggle with this because they think it comes down to ego—so either they shut the concept down because they think ego is bad or they take it too far and become egotistical.  Liking oneself actually has nothing to do with ego.  Liking oneself is an appreciation for the life we have and life in general.  When we like ourselves we find these innate skills that need to be used to navigate through our days, how we help others, how we show up in the world because when we like ourselves, we find our authentic frequency.  If we struggle with appreciating what we have then we will likely not be comfortable appreciating what’s to come.  We won’t be open enough to receive it.

Liking ourselves is more about taking up the mantle of our capabilities and accepting responsibility for the life we want to create and how it impacts others.  It has very little to do with what we want and more to do with who we are so ego has nothing to do with it.  It’s us refining our skills so we can enter the flow of life and live as we are meant to.  So we can help others by being an example of what it takes to serve, to life, and to share.  When we do those things, when we know who we are and we accept that responsibility, the universe responds intensely by opening all the doors to what we want and are meant to have.  Serving our purpose and bringing it all together mean more than any material thing we can show the world to prove our worth.  How we use our skills and what we share with the world is where it matters—and that all starts with liking ourselves enough to accept who we are and to own our role.