“Make decisions that reflect your worth, not your fear,” Spirit Daughter.  Things will fall apart.  Sometimes it feels like the entire premise of our lives is in question because we have no bearing for who we are.  When we look around us we don’t see anything of what we want, we aren’t even really sure who made those decisions that brought us to where we are.  As I mentioned yesterday, it’s easy to focus on the negative because we are naturally prone to look for signs that something is off in case it means danger is around.  We don’t face the same types of threats that we did in those primal days but that instinct is still there—we want to survive even if the environment for what we consider survival has shifted.  It’s funny how society preys on this as well—we still try to ensure survival to a degree by creating these hierarchies of imagined worth.  We are all human and the truth is we are no different than the next person.  We all have the ability to shift our reality.  What we focus on is what makes us different.    

The truth is that if the worst of what impacts our survival is our own ego, then we have a pretty sweet deal—damage to the ego will not kill us.  In all cases enough time will pass where people won’t remember the event that caused us embarrassment—but we will always remember and wonder about missed opportunities.  So focus on what we know we are worth and what we can contribute to the world instead of what we are afraid of.  As in our discussion yesterday, when we speak about what is wrong and what is bad, that is what we will bring into our lives.  So at all times we need to remember who we are and what we are capable of and we need to be grateful for that, grateful for the opportunity to bring about results with that type of power.  I can’t make any of us feel confident and believe in the power of their words, to remember their worth.  But I can speak about it enough that perhaps we will start to remember that we are all inherently worthy and that all we have around us is illusion anyway.  We don’t need to define ourselves with things or appearance.  We simply need to let those things and our appearance be a reflection of who we are.

Being settled and confident in who we are is the ultimate reminder of our worth and that immediately quelches any fears we have.  This all goes back to my constant refrain of knowing ourselves is the foundation for everything we want.  When we know who we are, we know our frequency, we know the energy we put out into the universe.  We may not always know what we will get back but we know that we will be able to handle anything that comes our way.  It isn’t about knowing the result or what everything looks like, it’s about being assured that everything that comes our way is within our scope of expertise and is no reflection or question of worth but rather our ability to turn whatever it is into whatever it needs to be.  There is nothing to be afraid of outside of bodily harm.  There is no real danger outside of bodily harm.  The rest is a game of will and desire.  So always remember who we are and what we are capable of.