Don’t worry about what others think of you.  Your greatest asset is your individuality.  Stay true to that and let yourself shine.  Keep the focus on the value you can provide/add.  More importantly, don’t ever let anyone tell you that you don’t have value.  We all have value.  There are enough obstacles throughout the day and we have enough going through our heads that we really shouldn’t use precious brain space worrying what others think of us anyway.  The more we know ourselves, the more confidence we have and the less we need to rely on outside opinion regardless.    

The other layer to this is that we can never truly know what is going on inside someone’s head.  Often times we think we know how people feel and what they think when they see us.  If we assume the value people assign to us it just makes it that much more difficult to create and become who we are meant to be.  Regardless, we need to stop being so fixated on what people think of us and simply be who we are.  We truly need to trust that the right people and circumstances will find us when we start putting out our most authentic selves.

At the end of the day if we hold our authenticity and do what we know is right then the opinions of others won’t matter.  We will get where we need to go and attract all of the experiences we are meant to have on the virtue of simply being who we are.  Additionally, when we know ourselves well enough, we just won’t feel the need to have that type of approval from others—and we won’t need it.  We understand thoughts differently and know that we don’t need to base our actions on what other people are thinking—and that we can never truly know what someone is thinking.  So take who you are at top value and keep being fabulous.  The world needs us as we are, not as someone thinks we are—that’s why we were given the unique gifts we have.  So just be ourselves.