The best gift you can give the world is to be yourself—fully yourself.  People will like you or dislike you no matter what you do so align with your authentic truth and do what makes you happy.  If you don’t make a stand in who you are, you will fall for anything—and no one can stand for you if you are for everyone.  Now, that isn’t to say that you need to isolate people who don’t agree with you, rather it is to say that we can love everyone and let them be while still being who we are.  Anyone who likes the version you pretend to be but doesn’t like you’re authentic self isn’t meant to be in your life.  Let them go.  We are trained to think we need to fit in and be like everyone else and end up losing the understanding that our uniqueness is necessary in this world—it is actually needed.  We don’t need more copies.  A few weeks ago I talked about Gary Brecka’s work on authenticity, specifically his understanding/interpretation of the SPANE study.  Authenticity is the most powerful frequency emitted by the body.  Why would we need to be anything other than ourselves?  Who we are as individuals truly is a gift.

The world will judge no matter what.  The important part is that we know who we are.  One thing for sure is that I personally didn’t understand how much work and how much time it takes to get to know ourselves.  The impressionability we have as children is remarkable.  If there was a way to transmute all of the knowledge of the world in childhood, knowing there is no limit, then we would never waste a single moment being something we are not.  We are trained to think unique is shameful or something that we need to hide.  By the time we figure out that we need to share it and stand out a bit, it becomes so uncomfortable that it takes real effort to step outside of our comfort zone.  If we learn to be comfortable it shifts how we operate.  I’ve learned recently, especially with how this past year has moved, that time moves unbelievably fast.  We have to make the decision to do what works for us regardless of what others think—we have to go with what we know.