Just a quick snippet of how aligning with frequency works.  The universe has infinite ways of telling us what we need to do.  It has infinite ways, feelings, frequencies, messages, signals, WHATEVER you want to call it for getting our attention.  I never learned to trust my decision making ability so for ages (probably longer than I would like to admit…or maybe I don’t want to admit I still do it) I would look for outside ways to confirm my choices.  I would do things like ask to see a hawk, or find a certain number, or even have a certain number of red skittles in a bag.  Yes, I’d even consult the Magic 8 ball believing it was some type of sign from the universe.  Quite frankly I’d drive myself crazy looking for the proof that what I wanted was coming.  Even more disheartening, I’d find a positive sign and then it wouldn’t happen. 

In spite of all that, I still held out hope and I still look for signs.  The other day I was eating some candy and was thinking of how I always chose Strawberry as my indicator that good things were coming.  I said to myself, “You’ve really been enjoying citrus lately, maybe you’re not getting what you want because you’re asking for confirmation in a way that doesn’t align with who you are now.  Just because you liked strawberry then doesn’t mean you have to like it that way forever.”  As soon as I opened the candy, I saw it was two lemon flavored pieces.  Now, I’m not sure if what I was thinking about will ever come to fruition, but one part of the thought did: in order to receive what we want we have to be in alignment with the truth of what we desire.  We have to choose who we are and be honest about it.

We spoke of frequency yesterday and we need to know the Universe can’t deliver if we aren’t aligned.  We can’t say we want something and then do something else expecting to get what we said we wanted.  A few months back, I wrote that we can’t say we want to go to Bali and book a ticket to Florida hoping to get to Bali—the universe doesn’t work like that.  This is also a reminder that we aren’t meant to be the same person forever.  We grow and adapt, and I was raised by people who believed that once we made the decision of who we are, that was it, you stuck with your choices.  But life moves forward and we learn and with closer examination of who we are, with allowing who we are to surface, we know that we change.  We are meant to change. What served then doesn’t necessarily serve now, our needs change and the things we like, the person we truly are emerges—and liking citrus over strawberry is a small but prime example.  Be honest about our changes, honor the season we are in, and watch life unfold.